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On the subject of class in “western Buddhism”

pythios replied to your link: Any questions?
Here’s something I’ve been thinking about: class divisions in western Buddhism. Even when retreats are made affordable, those with bills and student loans can’t take off big chunks of time.
Consequently, those becoming teachers are those who can afford to do that, and consequently I’ve noticed that their dharma talks reflect their class status. I rarely hear talks that mention not knowing how you’re going to make the rent, or assuming that you’ll spend the rest of your life under student loans. I’m not griping, just pondering.

Thank you, and in reply … I can concur though I may not have a particularly satisfactory answer. I’m not going to lie, I actually have a big problem with the commercialization of the Dharma. It’s an unfortunate consequence of a Buddhist model that does not have monasticism (and certainly not generosity) at its core.

Though my focus was ostensibly the lack of parity when it comes to gender among teachers and guides in Buddhism, I spoke about the broader challenges to living a contemplative life in some detail, and believe it begins to address some of your concerns and may be of interest to you. (While you’re over there, you might also like -isms and the need to belong.)

Thanissaro Bhikkhu in No Strings Attached: The Buddha’s Culture of Generosity criticizes the teachings-for-pay model that is so predominant here in the US and says:

[T]he best way to repay a teacher is to take the Dhamma to heart and to practice it in a way that fulfills his or her compassionate purpose in teaching it.

How many teachers actually embody this wish, when offering the Dharma? And how many students have this intention in their practice and live it?

I agree with you that Buddhism in the West will continue to mirror the inequities of the larger society as long as we continue to offer the teachings in a way that caters to a particular demographic and that makes intensive practice cost prohibitive to most people. So what’s the solution?

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If we don’t really possess things, how much less do we possess the people in our lives. The very nature of our relationship to them, if it is a truly loving human relationship, is freedom, even though it may include commitment and obligation. To really love someone—a spouse, a child, a colleague, or a friend—is to recognize that they are not us, that they have needs, aspirations, and lives that do not belong to us and that we cannot control. Can we appreciate and give ourselves to them without fixating on what they will give us in return? Can we allow them their freedom and autonomy? Love like that may be the highest form of the practice of nonpossessiveness.

Norman Fischer, on the Eighth Grave Precept inTaking Our Places: The Buddhist Path to Truly Growing Up

(Reference: Everyday Zen - 3 Versions of the Zen Precepts)

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Pleasure arises from
rightly serving one’s parents.
Pleasure arises from
supporting renunciates.
Pleasure arises from
Honoring awakened beings.
Dhammapada 332, Ajahn Munindo rendition (download/read or listen)
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Me to We - Generosity Everyday (by hodgepodgepictures)

Reimagining today as generosity day.

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Even if one should carry about one’s mother on one’s shoulder and one’s father on the other, and so doing should live a hundred years…. Moreover, if one should set them up as supreme rulers, having absolute rule over the wide earth abounding in the seven treasures - not even by this could one repay… one’s parents. And why! Bhikkhus, parents do a lot for their children: they bring them up, provide them with food, introduce them to the world.

Yet, bhikkhus, whoever encourages their faithless parents, and settles and establishes them in faith; or whoever encourages their immoral parents and settles and establishes them in morality, or whoever encourages their stingy parents, and settles and establishes them in generosity, or whoever encourages their foolish parents, and settles and establishes them in wisdom - such a person, in this way repays, more than repays, what is due to their parents.

Anguttara Nikaya, Twos: 32 (referenced in a beautiful talk on gratitude, Pali: kataññu, by Ajahn Sumedho)

See also Thanissaro Bhikkhu translation.

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